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What is a Lingam Massage?
What is a Lingam massage?
Sex often follows certain norms. It is said that the man should begin with gentle foreplay, using soft and sensual touches. His partner relaxes, receiving the slow and graceful energy. Only after some time does penetration occur, and that happens when signs of desire are clear. A true lover stays connected with their partner and understands what she wants and when she wants it.
Now, what if we turned this idea of foreplay around completely?
What if the woman took the lead in foreplay with her partner?
This might sound unusual, but that's what a lingam massage is all about!
It’s a type of foreplay where the woman engages with the man, but it’s not like regular foreplay meant only to excite the sexual appetite. The man has to be gentle and patient. They say the best part of intimacy is the foreplay, and when the woman is aroused, penetration becomes easier. This is because the natural friction between the man and woman during intimacy helps both partners reach climax more easily.
In a lingam massage, the man lies back at a 45-degree angle, ideally supported by soft cushions, and exposes his body to his partner.
The massage starts with a very relaxed routine, where oil is gently massaged onto the abdomen in a circular motion. The man must stay completely relaxed and avoid touching his partner. It’s important for him to control the urge to reciprocate because the idea behind the lingam massage is to focus on building sexual energy. He must concentrate on his breathing and feel the movements of his partner.
After a few strokes, more oil is added to keep the skin moisturized, and the focus moves to the pelvic area and hips. The penis should not be touched at all during this phase. The rhythmic movements create sexual tension, which will grow stronger as the massage continues.
On the pelvic and hips, the movements change. Instead of circles, gentle pressure combined with slight up and down motions is used to relax the muscles and stimulate blood flow to the penis.
Maintaining eye contact for most of the time is key. This is a sensual experience, and constant eye contact, without any verbal communication, enhances the erotic nature of the moment.
A key part of a great intimate experience is being able to read your partner’s signals. Sexual desires often show in body language, so the woman should know when to move on to the next phase – stroking the penis.
How erect the penis is will determine the initial stroke. If the penis is still a bit soft, she can gently hold the base and squeeze until it becomes fully erect. Once it is hard, the strokes should be soft and slow, with fingers coming together like picking up something from a surface. Start at the base of the penis and move up the shaft. The movement should be gentle to stimulate nerve endings.
This is an advanced technique that requires practice over time, so be patient and enjoy exploring each other’s desires.
Is there a lingam massage service near me? Yes, our lingam massage services are available across West Oakland, Oakland.
